You must hammer and forge yourself into one.
4 days off at work.
October 31, 2010Sat, Sun, Mon and Tuesday..
Nov 1 - go to Cemetery with family to visit our Grandma who died 2 yrs ago.
We used to do this every 1st of Nov.
Pitiful we cant go in Masbate City to visit my Grandpa who died this May 2010
malapit na :)
October 22, 2010Panagbenga Festival Baguio City
–we’ll go in Baguio City this coming Feb 2011
will stay there for one week with my family
Hilongos Leyte Fiesta
–we’ll go in Leyte 3rd week of May.
Round trip from Cebu Pacific.
superlike!
bonding with my family =D
October 19, 2010Morning:
went at the commonwealth market with mama.
bought some veggies,groceries, etc for house..
Afternoon:
went at Ever Gotesco Mall..
shopped at the department store and ate at tropical hut restau with my mum,sisters and cousins and uncle Gil.
Green Salad is the best!! superlike! :->
their fries is yummy too.
Evening:
we arrived at 10pm ..fitted the new dresses/bags..etc
went online.
watched music videos of Boyce Avenue with my sis angelica :->
chit chat with our guest uncle Gil.
He stayed for one night only..
A wonderful night.
i want to know what LOVE is..
October 12, 2010![]()
Relationship - Love - Couple |
| What is love? It is one of the most difficult questions for mankind. Centuries have passed by, relationships have bloomed and so has love. But no one can give the proper definition of love. To some Love is friendship set on fire for others Maybe love is like luck. You have to go all the way to find it. No matter how you define it or feel it, love is the eternal truth in the history of mankind. Love is patient, love is kind. It has no envy, nor does it boast itself and it is never proud. It rejoices over the evil and is the truth seeker. Love protects; preserves and hopes for the positive aspect of life. Always stand steadfast in love, not fall into it. It is like the dream of your matter of affection coming true. |
| Love can occur between two or more individuals. It bonds them and connects them in a unified link of trust, intimacy and interdependence. It enhances the relationship and comforts the soul. Love should be experienced and not just felt. The depth of love can not be measured. Look at the relationship between a mother and a child. The mother loves the child unconditionally and it can not be measured at all. A different dimension can be attained between any relationships with the magic of love. Love can be created. You just need to focus on the goodness of the other person. If this can be done easily, then you can also love easily. And remember we all have some positive aspect in us, no matter how bad our deeds maybe. And as God said “Love all” |
| Depending on context, love can be of different varieties. Romantic love is a deep, intense and unending. It shared on a very intimate and interpersonal and sexual relationship. The term Platonic love, familial love and religious love are also matter of great affection. It is more of desire, preference and feelings. The meaning of love will change with each different relationship and depends more on its concept of depth, versatility, and complexity. But at times the very existence of love is questioned. Some say it is false and meaningless. It says that it never exist, because there has been many instances of hatred and brutality in relationships. |
| Psychology portrays love as a cognitive phenomenon with a social cause. It is said to have three components in the book of psychology: Intimacy, Commitment, and Passion. Also, in an ancient proverb love is defined as a high form of tolerance. And this view has been accepted and advocated by both philosophers and scholars. Love also includes compatibility. But it is more of journey to the unknown when the concept of compatibility comes into picture. Maybe the person whom we see in front of us, may be least compatible than the person who is miles away. We might talk to each other and portray that we love each other, but practically we do not end up into any relationship. Also in compatibility, the key is to think about the long term successful relationship, not a short journey. We need to understand each other and must always remember that no body is perfect. |
Your Love Langauge……………………………………….
Once the “In-Love Experience” of emotional highs has run its course (and according to Gary Chapman the average time for being ín love is two years), couples return to reality and have a choice of pursuing the long-lasting “In-Love by Choice” relationship.
“This kind of love is emotinal in nature but not obessional. it is a love that unites reason and emotion. It involves an act of the will and requires discipline, and it recongnizes the need for personal growth.” Gary Chapman.
There are 5 love languages and they are:
Physical Touch:
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Words of Affirmation: Quality Times: Acts of Service: Receiving Gifts: |
Important Dates Reminder
September 24, 2010Sept 22, 2010 - sis angelica’s birth day
Sept 23, 2010 - my uncle’s birth day
Sept 29, 2010 - my cousin Marjorie’s birth day celebration @ house
Sept 30, 2010 - my cousin Jefferson’s birth day celebration @ house
Oct 02, 2010 - churchmate Joyce’s birth day party (i will attend the party in pasig city)
Oct 05, 2010 - reunion with my 3rd yr classmates (Marlyn, Cynthia and Cherry)
* i will meet jason
Oct 06-09, 2010 - travel and tour w/ jason (manila museum, manila ocean park, intramuros, luneta park and san beda church)
Oct 10, 2010 - birth day of my mum:-> we’ll eat dinner in restau as for mum’s celebration ^_^
*birth day of cousin Mailyn
*birth day of our HR in office Sir Nico
*birth day of my former classmate Jandale
Oct 11-14, 2010 - travel and tour w/ Jason
(The Chocolate Kiss Restau, somewhere in Tomas Morato Ave or Makati City)
Oct 15, 2010 - Jason will leave Phils.
*last day of Jason here..
Oct 17, 2010 -family day (mall or stay at house)
Oct 18, 2010 - Joy Ann’s birth day bash
Oct 23, 2010 - Dentist appointment
just to kill boredom :-D
September 18, 2010
Part 1: RANDOM QUESTIONS 1. What time is it where you live? 2. What do you normally do on the weekends? 3. Would you want to know the exact day you are going to die? 4. Say that you are in a plane crash and get stuck on an island like on the show Lost, who would you want to be with you? 5. What day does school start where you live? even if you don’t go to school but one of your siblings do? 6. How old where you when you got your first kiss? 7. What TV show have you seen every episode of? 8. Do you believe that there is a soul-mate for everyone? 9. How many boyfriends/girlfriends have you had in your life? 10. If you could be anywhere in the world right now where would you be? Part 2: THIS OR THAT 1. Cats or dogs: dogs. Part 3: BOLDING 1. I am 18 years old or older -answering this survey while waiting for my phonecall to be answered by my client T_T
8:35 AM
go ONLINE! sleep, eat, hangout with my cousins Ü
YESSS!
food provider
it starts on MONDAY, obviously.
i haven’t T_T
FULL HOUSE. t’was my fave
surprisingly, YES
surprisingly, NONE. nbsb
if where can i found my happiness
2. White or Black: both.
3. Coke or Pepsi: coke.
4. A night out or A night in: out.
5. Chicken or Turkey: chicken.
6. Day or Night: night.
7: Spring or Summer: spring.
8. Fall or Winter: winter.
9. Nike or Adidas: nike.
10: Turtle of Frog: turtles!
(bold what is true)
2. I have a dog
3. I have a twitter and use it daily
4. My most visited website is Youtube.
5. I live/have lived outside the USA
6. I have never been in love
7. I plan on moving out within the next two years
8. My brother does not live with us
9. It takes me over an hour to get ready in the morning
10. All my friends live on a different side of the country or world
11. I can’t stand it when people hear me chewing
12. Gilmore Girls is one of my favorite TV shows
13. Sometimes I think my cat thinks shes a dog
14. My dad is gone for the next two months
15. You have at least one person in your life you can tell everything to
16. Your mom is always on the phone
17. You want to be a photographer
18. You LOVE Dr.pepper
19. You don’t understand why there are so many bolding things on this survey
20. You’re going to take another survey after this
office mode.
July 22, 2009
1. Where is the person you need most
right now?
♥ it’s God by the way. @_@
2. What’s your middle initial?
♥ R.
3. What’s your middle name?
♥Reoma
4. Where will you be 12 hours from now?
♥sLeeping.ü
5. Do you know what you are going to
wear tomorrow?
♥ yUp..^_^
6. Where is your girlfriend/boyfriend?
♥i don’t have.
7. Are you on a desktop or laptop?
♥ desktop
8. do you cry easily?
♥ Yes?..
9. Can you make yourself cry?
♥ yes. if i can’t control my emotion..
10. Who was the last person to make you cry?
♥ My eldeSt Sister (coz She didn’t greet me last July 06 and doesn’t go home for 2yrs)
11. When you hear crystal, first came to mind is?
♥ ring
12. Would you go back in time if you
were given the chance?
♥ YEs.
13. whose ur crush?
♥ Arashi japanese band
haha
14. Have you ever called a guy/girl?
♥ but of couRse.. =P
15. Have you ever kissed someone whose name starts with an E?
♥ No one kissed me.haha nxt question pls.
16. Last person you talked on the phone
with?
♥ Janice
17. What role does that person play in your life?
♥ my best friend
18. Are you easily confused?
♥ YES!!! wha..
19. Do you think you would make a good husband/wife?
♥ Yes. haha. i do believe!
20. What are you doing right now?
♥ jUst waiting for 21 mins more before time out so i can go home na..
21. Have you ever liked someone who
treated you like crap?
♥haha. nonsense question..
22. Ever felt jealous of your friend?
♥ hmmm. sometimes..
23. What is the first thing you notice
about the opposite sex?
♥ attitude =P
24. Do you fall for people easily?
♥ nope.
25. Does everything happen for a
reason?
♥ AbSoluteLy.!
26. have you ever dated someone more
than once?
♥ naah
27. Who have you texted the most in the last 24 hours?
♥ mom
28. Last thing you got in the mail?
♥ comment from ruth at my facebook account..hehe
29. When was the last time you saw
the person you really want to see always?
♥ my family.
this sunday coz i am at boarding house mon-sat
30. What are you listening to right
now?
♥ my officemate’s conversation..ahehe
31. How has the weekend been?
♥ Happy! ^_^
32. What do you like about the person
you love?
♥patience
33. Is there something you wish you
could tell someone but can’t? why?
♥ Yes.wha..its complicated.
34. What is your biggest turn off?
♥if a guy whom i use to admire is boastful pala..
35. Why did your last relationship end?
♥ can’t relate..haha
36. What do you think of gay and lesbians?
♥ abnormality
37. Have you ever had a feeling for a gay/lesbian?
♥BIG NO!
38. Who is/are your favorite person to have a serious conversation with?
♥ Friends and cousins..
*Just having some post here again..haha while waiting before my time out. haha.. i hope i can have some blog here again..hehe soon if i can update it again.. =]
survey from my friend..Ü
February 22, 2009survey from my friend..Ü doin’ some relaxation mode here in blog.Ü (day-off..)^_^ wee!!! hmm while waiting..Ü
1.) As of this moment, how many profile views do you have?
♥hmm..i don’t know.^_^
2) Is there someone you wanna date right now?
♥ahaha. no one.
3) Write a quote from the song you’re listening to:
♥ you’re just like a tattoo, i’ll always have you.. –> tattoo by JORDIN SPARKS.
4) Are you keeping a secret from someone who needs to know the truth?
♥nothing
5) What was the reason you last cried?
♥ hmm..about school…
6) What did you talk about to the last person who called you on the phone?
♥ hmm..the HR representative in a call center agent called me and asked to have an interview at their company..hmmm.. the girl asked my availability..
.
7) What are your favorite fruits?
♥ hmm..first, banana..
^_^ orange ponkan, strawberry, mango, pineapple, apple.ahahaha..so many to mention..^_^.
8) What are the most important thing in ANY relationship?
♥ trust. .
9) What’s the last song to make you cry?
♥ Do I make you proud by TAYLOR HICKS
10) Do you love someone?
♥ my family.
11) Is your best friend cute?
♥ yeah..^_^
12) Do you trust people easily?
♥ hmm..no.
19) How long have you been friends with your best friends?
♥ 11 years..Ü hmm.. she’s my friend, and classmate since nursery,kinder and elementary..Ü <its Joanna..^_^>
20) Last thing you drank?
♥ water. .
22) Does someone have a crush on you?
♥ hmmm..i don’t know some1..ahaha.
24) Last person you had a deep and meaningful conversation with?
♥mum
25) Name something you have in common with all your siblings?
♥ we’re strOng. .Ü.
26) In two words describe yourself:
♥ simple,patient..Ü.
27) How many kids do you plan on having?
♥ 3..^_^
32) Generally, in life, what makes you happy?
♥ God,Family, and Friends.ÜÜÜ
33) What are you asking for Year 2009?
♥ Luck for my studies,Ü and guidance, love, strength and knowledge from God.Ü.
35) What is one thing you miss about your past?
♥ my classmates.. :’) wha..really its get my eyes teared..hmm..but its okey..ahe i just keep on touch sometimes..though busy.. :’l
hmmm..oh its the end of the survey..hehe….^_^
oh its the start of year 2009..^_^
January 1, 2009happY nEw year!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
wha..the year 2008 is now over..hmmm..its the start of another year and journey of everyone’s life..*wink..hehe..hmm…to start with my story with how my new year’s celebration gone..i want to THANK first God for everything I have now in my life..Ü God is always good for us..only we must not hesitate to accept struggles in life..hmm…its just a test for our faith to determine how strong really is..we must keep to hold on in our faith to God..ÜÜÜ hmm…thanks to God.☺ hmm…for giving me such a wonderful and fruitful life in His own world.Ü
the prePeration..^_^
5:30 AM (exactlly) just awaken early in the morning..*wink…yeah, maybe its too early but its the day to make ourselves so busssssyyy…^_^ hehehe all of us were working that moment and again cleaned the house..hehe we badly need to wake up early..its an early preparation..
4:30 PM hehe…finally its time for me to sit back and touch the keyboard..Ü hehe to update my account in fs and fb, read my emails too..and lastly, have an another post here in blog..^_^
7:30 PM hmm.. me and my family, neighborhood, friends went busy..^_^ hehe…the time whereas anyone of us went busy in preparing for the accommodations and visitors..:-)
apee new yeAR!!
Godbless us all.Ü
devotional verse from bible..Ü
December 31, 2008Balancing Your LifeBy Rick Warren
“Don’t let the errors of evil people lead you down the wrong path and make you lose your balance.” (2 Peter 3:17, CEV)
Blessed are the balanced; they shall outlast everyone.
One of the events in the summer Olympics is the pentathlon. It is composed of five events: pistol shooting, fencing, horseback riding, running, and swimming. The pentathlete’s goal is to succeed in all five areas, not just one or two.
Your life is a pentathlon of five purposes, which you must keep in balance. These purposes were practiced by the first Christians in Acts 2, explained by Paul in Ephesians 4, and modeled by Jesus in John 17, but they are summarized in the Great Commandment and the Great Commission of Jesus.
These two statements sum up what this daily devotional is all about - God’s five purposes for your life:
1. “Love God with all your heart”: You were planned for God’s pleasure, so your purpose is to love God through worship.
2. “Love your neighbor as yourself”: You were shaped for serving, so your purpose is to show love for others through ministry.
3. “Go and make disciples”: You were made for a mission, so your purpose is to share God’s message through evangelism.
4. “baptize them into …”: You were formed for God’s family, so your purpose is to identify with his church through fellowship.
5. “teach them to do all things …”: You were created to become like Christ, so your purpose is to grow to maturity through discipleship.
A great commitment to the Great Commandment and the Great Commission will make you a great Christian.
Point to ponder: Balance is critical if you’re going to fulfill the five purposes of your life.
Verse: “Don’t let the errors of evil people lead you down the wrong path and make you lose your balance.” (2 Peter 3:17, CEV)
What will you do about it: Take a survey of your life. Are you fulfilling all five of your purposes? What do you need to do to find balance in those five areas?
Prayer: Ask God to balance you. Ask him to shift your priorities and rearrange your life so that you’re fulfilling your whole purpose.ü
just for a pOst before going to sLeeP..ü
1.) Last night, did you go to sleep happy?
‘yes.
2.) When was the last time you changed in front of someone?
-
3.) Anyone told you a secret this week?
‘Yup..a friEnd of mine..ü
4.) Did u have a good day yesterday?
‘Yup.
5.) What was the highlight of today?
‘cLeaning, wasing the disHes and clothes..hmm in short..—GENERAL CLEANING.
6.) Do you ever turn your cell phone off?
‘yup..most of the time..hehe..(coz its low bat and when it comes the lazy part in me..taarrrannn..i didn’t charge it..^_^ hehehe)
7.) What happened at 3:00am today?
‘I’m still sleeping at that moment..^_^
8.) When was the last time you took a picture with your friend?
‘dec. 26..(hehehe…wheN i visited at Malabon..ü)
9.) Do you hate someone?
‘no.
10) Do they know who they are?
-
11.) What is your favorite thing to eat with peanut butter?
‘breaD..ü
12.) When did you last cry?
‘can’t remember..?
13.) Have you ever collapsed on the bathroom floor?
‘NOPE..
14.) Do you have a good relationship with your mother?
‘Yup..^_^
15.) Are you slowly distancing from someone you love?
‘NOPE..
15.) When was the last time you bought something?
‘YESTERDAY..hmm…it’s hair accessory actually..ü
16.) Have you ever told someone you love them?
‘yup..most of the time my relatives.ü
17.) Do you continue fighting in an argument even though you know you’re wrong?
‘Nope..
18.) What do you want in your life right now?
‘SUCcESs
19.) Is there anyone that calls you baby?
‘None..
20.) In the next 4 months, what are you looking forward to the most?
’summer vacation..ü
21.) Why?
‘it’s time for vacation and time to relax for instance..Ü
22.) Who were the last 5 texts in your inbox from?
‘pameLa, janice, Aiza, Cherrie,mary rOse.
23.) What are you thinking of right now?
‘after this, im gonna sleep..^_^
25.) Have you ever sat and waited for someone to come online?
‘yup..waiting for my auntie and cousins..ü
26.) When was the last time you laughed so hard you thought you were going to cry?
‘dec. 21 2008(Sunday) the last time that we had our family reunion..^_^ so happy!
27.) Did you tell someone something today?
‘hmm…nothing special
28.) Do you wear Crocs?
yeah
29.) Do you like dressing up?
‘hmmm…not that really.
32.) Are you bored?
‘no..coz im busy in the house..whaa..
33.) What’s on your mind right now?
‘its time for me to sleep but then im still answering this one..*hehe
34.) What are you wearing?
‘pink T-shirt, white pants..hehe
35.) Any plans for today?
‘SLEEP. .
36.) What’s the connection between you and the last person who called you?
‘friend..:-) janice sandahan is really my best friend..Ü
37.) What’s your favorite Gatorade flavor?
‘hmmm..red.
38.) What does the nicest text in your inbox say?
‘humility brings blessings..Ü
39.)What is the thing you hate most about boys/girls?
‘being unrespectful..i hate bad attitudes..grrrr,..
40.)What can you say about the person you hate?
‘i don’t hate anyone..hmmm if ever i will have?..hmmm i’ll just try to make our status to become okey with one another..
41.)Do you believe in forever?
‘yEs..ü
42.)Do you get along with your siblings?
‘yup..
43.)Do you miss someone?
‘hmmm…my sister
44.)How will you celebrate Christmas?
‘the christmas is over but then to share it with..hmm..we just ate altogether..Ü
45.)What is the thing you regret the most?
“when i lost my tv phone going to duty in Novaliches Hospital.. :’(




